Your name of Herlem gives you independence and determination. You recognize your difficulty in expressing emotional sentiments and compliments that mean so much to sensitive people. Under circumstances when others are expressive, you feel inferior because you recognize your inability to communicate your deeper thoughts and feelings. From early in life, you have asserted your individuality, learning through your own experiences, relying upon your ingenuity and practical creativity to accomplish your objectives. You have known misunderstandings and a tendency to jealousy and moods of depression. Nothing intimidates you once you make up your mind. You prefer the simple life and do not mind making do at times. You will not tolerate dominance by others because your freedom means too much to you. The restrictions of this name cause you to suffer with either headaches, weak eyes, sinus problems, asthma, or heart conditions. You feel this separation from others and would give anything to be always lighthearted and friendly instead of serious and shy.