Your first name of Josselyn makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.