Your first name of Lafette gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You will sacrifice your own opportunities to help others. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. Because others often come to you for assistance with their problems, you must guard against being drawn out to divulge confidences. You love children and would not hesitate to care for any children who might need you. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.