Your first name of Lovelai has given you a desire for self-expression and for positions that allow contact with people, free from the restrictions and monotony into which you are often drawn. If you receive an apology, you can be very forgiving, for you do not tend to hold grudges. Family and home life are important as long as a routine does not become monotonous. If told that you must do something, you tend to resist, but when your sense of co-operation is appealed to, then your desire to please brings out your best. You want to plan and budget, and to maintain a well-ordered home, but it is difficult for you to follow through with your plans. You can be easily hurt by harsh words and depreciatory remarks, but you hide your feelings and appear indifferent as though they do not affect you. Although you would like to be natural in conveying emotional sentiments, you tend to be matter-of-fact and practical in expressions of appreciation for others. You enjoy sharing, giving, and creating, and you find your reward in seeing happiness in others. You enjoy sugars and starchy, rich foods. This lack of fulfilment of your deeper qualities tends to create repression and frustration.