Your first name, Ndende, creates an independent, determined, and persevering nature. Sometimes you are too forceful with those who mean the most to you and misunderstandings arise because you find it a challenge to understand the nuances of feelings and needs of sensitive natures. Yet, when you are relaxed with people, you can be very witty because of the straightforward way you look at life’s situations. You are not afraid to try new activities in order to lead the way for others. You gain satisfaction from the pursuit of active undertakings using your abilities to improvise and create in a physical way. Your independence and self-reliance do not make it easy for you to accept advice or the opinions of others. It is not a part of your nature to observe and return in kind the little attentions and gestures of affection of close associates. You feel awkward and embarrassed because you recognize your verbal restrictions in not being able to be as diplomatic, sympathetic, and solicitous, as others would like. You are loyal in friendships and express candidly. You enjoy outdoors activities with a few close friends.
