Your first name of Neecola gives you the desire for success and financial accumulation and the confidence and drive to go after your ambitions, regardless of obstacles. As financial security is important to you, you work hard to create it. Being extremely independent and capable, you learn through your own experiences and you like to work on your own or in a position where you are responsible for making decisions and directing the efforts of others. It is seldom easy for you to change your opinions about matters. When focused, you forge ahead despite obstacles to accomplish your goals. You learn through facts and tangible proof, not through theory and imagination. Excessive affection embarrasses you and you do not appreciate being the target for endearing words, not that you do not value them, but your self-conscious traits make it difficult for you to know how to respond. Many friendships are lost because of your directness. Those in close association complain that you are not inclined to observe and return acts of kindness, compassion, or affection. You would be a firm parent and your children would be well-disciplined, but you would find it difficult to get close to them and to show compassion and affection.