Your first name of Nelisiwe has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. Devoting some time to helping those in less fortunate circumstances is important to you. You can be depended upon to do any job well and you will often carry out an undertaking yourself instead of accepting a second-rate job accomplished by another. Being self-assured and self-reliant, you are naturally inclined toward operating your own business or accepting opportunities where your love of freedom is not curtailed. Your accomplishments give you a great deal of satisfaction, and involvement in social activities can sometimes make you feel that you are wasting time. This name does make you quite direct and straight-to-the-point. You do not change your mind readily. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people.