Your first name of Nerbeda gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas.
