Your first name of Nermela creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. You desire change and travel and would enjoy opportunities that allowed you to be creative and to act independently, rather than to conform to system and routine. Your name creates two conflicting natures. Your extreme sensitivity and intensity have an adverse effect on your nervous system and, under extreme pressure, could cause a nervous breakdown. Although you may appear confident and positive, you actually lack confidence and feel self-conscious at times. This name has given you a gregarious personality and a quick-thinking, creative, and versatile nature, but one that is unstable emotionally. When you are feeling relaxed and cheerful, you can be very charming and able to say just the right thing to compliment or inspire someone. There is much confusion under this name, and your moods will fluctuate from one extreme to the other. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits.