Your first name of Nhelma gives you a responsible, self-sufficient, and dependable nature. You have a strong, determined nature and tend to dominate others, and at times interfere, in your desire to be helpful. In a marriage or family, you are often required to make the major decisions. You are very self-sufficient and capable, and have naturally gravitated to positions of leadership and responsibility; you can capably direct the efforts of others, as you have good business judgment and the natural understanding of people. You do not like to be in subservient positions but want opportunities with greater scope. This name gives you many good qualities, but it is too strong, creating a materialistic nature and bringing out a forceful, demanding quality. Very likely you have assumed much responsibility early in life and are often required to make the major decisions. Appreciating quality in all things, you desire to be prosperous. It causes tension and allied problems in the generative organs. It spoils the development and expression of your warmer, more feminine attributes.