Your first name of Nialani gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You make friends easily. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. You love children and would not hesitate to care for any children who might need you. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.