Your first name of Nkhala makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. You know what to say to bring the best response. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You enjoy sociability and the good things of life, but must be aware of easy-going, good-time types of people who could draw you into experiences offering little in the way of progress. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.