Your first name of Nkhopiwe makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. Seldom do you take part in activities that are too strenuous and rigorous as you do not have the same vitality and perseverance that others have, although influences in your family name or other names you may use could modify this tendency. You know what to say to bring the best response. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.