Your first name of Nkilima has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Self-consciousness and lack of expression limit your ability to give in this way. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. This name does make you quite direct and straight-to-the-point. Your verbal expression does not reflect your inner thoughts and feelings, and you often wonder why people react to what you say. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. Devoting some time to helping those in less fortunate circumstances is important to you. Your standards of quality and efficiency are high. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity.
