Your first name of Oben has given you a friendly, likeable nature, and you could excel in artistic, dramatic, and musical expression. You appreciate fashionable clothes and refined surroundings because they add to your poise and self-assurance. Under stressful and intense situations, it is a challenge to you to maintain an even temperament as you are extreme in your feelings, optimistic and happy one moment, despondent and self-pitying the next. You are a romantic, nurtured by encouragement, tenderness, and affection. As you often experience difficulty making decisions, you appreciate the encouragement of others to give you the support and confidence necessary to follow through on your decisions. You could tend to make impractical promises, but which could satisfy the situation for the moment. Since your life is people-oriented, you must always hold the confidences shared with you and guard your tongue against a tendency to gossip. Your emotional feelings are easily aroused and you will always be involved in other people's problems as a result of your overly sympathetic nature. You have high goals and ideals, but must incorporate more practicality, system, and concentration in order to materialize them. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur.