Your first name of Obender has given you inspirational, idealistic, and dramatic qualities. You delight in mysteries and could be drawn to occult studies. These expressions of nature inspire your poetic and artistic inclinations, for you sense their harmony and experience placidity. Although you appear calm outwardly, your thoughts can be turbulent. Yet, you dislike crowds and stressful circumstances. You are inclined to be suspicious and to build situations out of proportion, perhaps the way someone looks at or speaks to someone you care for; you tend to look for hidden meanings and innuendos. You feel the silence and it makes you nervous. Many times you feel misunderstood and lonely, as you are easily hurt and offended and occasionally suffer from self-pity. You may experience health weaknesses in the lungs, heart, or nervous system because of your high-strung nature. Unfortunately, it is difficult for you to retain emotional stability, for you can easily swing into moods of depression and self-pity.
