Your first name of Obie gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. This name brings the tendency to magnify small issues out of proportion or to become too involved in personality conflicts. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. You require new ideas or concepts to be presented in complete detail before you can understand them properly and accept them. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. If you are employed, you would want a job that is secure and dependable, although you would be inclined to be happier in the role of a homemaker than in a role in the business world. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. Growths could also be a possibility.