Your first name of Ockenden gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. You seem calm and placid, even when you feel turbulent and unhappy. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. However, you have a dignity and poise that allow you to handle responsible positions in business. You appear aloof and, as a result, others do not realize how important affection and understanding are to you. As you live much of the time within your own thoughts, someone can be speaking to you face to face, but you will be thinking about something entirely different and have closed out the conversation. Light pleasantries and sociability do not appeal to you as much as reading, study, or outdoor activities. You love to read and can develop great powers of concentration. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life.
