Your first name of Ojeny gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. People like you at first meeting. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.