Your first name of Okkie gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You appreciate the pleasures of life. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. There are times when you allow procrastination to be a weakness, putting off monotonous tasks until you are forced to take action. You could be successful in public office where you are diligently looking after the rights of others. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. Because your mind is quick and intelligent and because you are very considerate, you are able to put others at ease by turning aside contentious issues. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.