Your first name of Olij has created a practical, responsible, stable nature, and you desire to direct the efforts of others rather than to take order or ask permission. You have a determined, self-reliant, capable nature and resent any interference, although in your desire to help you are inclined to become involved in the lives and decisions of other people. As a result, rather than trying to explain exactly what you mean, you choose often not to say anything at all. You feel a limitation in your own expression when it is necessary to reach another through tact and understanding. However, since you are so individual, others could think of you as being self-opinionated. You like to make your own decisions and to be the master of your domain. You also have a tendency to worry. You have a determined, self-reliant, capable nature and resent any interference, although in your desire to help you are inclined to become involved in the lives and decisions of other people. You also have a tendency to worry. It causes you to be too serious, and interferes with happiness and relaxation that comes with naturalness of expression.