Your first name of Pearlaja gives you the desire for success and financial accumulation and the confidence and drive to go after your ambitions, regardless of obstacles. Once you commit yourself, you are dependable and persevering. This drawback often prevents you from expressing your creativity along practical lines to materialize your ambitions. Many friendships are lost because of your directness. Being extremely independent and capable, you learn through your own experiences and you like to work on your own or in a position where you are responsible for making decisions and directing the efforts of others. Being staunch in friendships, you are not easily influenced by the opinions of others. An extremely independent and self-sufficient person, you dislike taking orders or advice from anyone. You start new endeavours and incorporate new ideas, but seldom if ever receive the full benefits and financial accumulation for your efforts. Those in close association complain that you are not inclined to observe and return acts of kindness, compassion, or affection. You would be a firm parent and your children would be well-disciplined, but you would find it difficult to get close to them and to show compassion and affection.