Your first name of Pingala gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. People like you at first meeting. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. Because others often come to you for assistance with their problems, you must guard against being drawn out to divulge confidences. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities.