Your first name of Ponmudi creates an idealistic, charming, expressive personality. Often you find yourself in the position of the mediator, where you are settling disagreements, or you find you are going along with something you do not agree with, just to keep the peace. An inclination to be lazy and to put off tasks until forced to take action result in broken promises. You want everyone to be happy and agreeable, and your environment to be harmonious and free from acrimony. You create friendships easily and can make yourself at home in many situations. You have the desire to help wherever possible. You dislike monotony but excel in situations in which tact and diplomacy are required, such as social activities, social services, or education. Your sympathies, however, make you too emotional, too generous and easy going and others tend to take advantage of you. With good intentions, you make promises but do not always keep them. It is difficult for you to say "no" and mean it.