Your first name of Qondile gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. At times you exhibit an uncompromising attitude and indifference toward others through failing to listen to and reason out another person’s point of view. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. Weaknesses in your physical body show in either the fluid functions or the digestive and eliminative tract. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. Growths could also be a possibility.
