Your first name of Rafeda gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. Because of your strong concentrative abilities, you can shut noises and activities out so completely that you may not even hear someone calling your name. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. Your reticence has caused you to suffer aloneness and misunderstandings. You listen for the sounds of the birds and animals, the wind in the trees, the rolling surf, gently falling rain. As you are a private person, it is a challenge for others to get to know and understand you. These aspects are dear to you and touch you deeply. Intrigued by the mysteries of life, you often ponder the deeper reasons for existence. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.