Your first name of Rafelsa gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. You appear aloof and, as a result, others do not realize how important affection and understanding are to you. You are capable and clever and would excel in executive positions. Light pleasantries and sociability do not appeal to you as much as reading, study, or outdoor activities. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. Your reticence has caused you to suffer aloneness and misunderstandings. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.