Your first name of Rahja makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You dislike sordid conditions and harsh circumstances. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You enjoy sociability and the good things of life, but must be aware of easy-going, good-time types of people who could draw you into experiences offering little in the way of progress. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.