Your first name of Raiford gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. It is by actions rather than words that you show your regard for others. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. You do not have many close friends. However, you have a dignity and poise that allow you to handle responsible positions in business. Your reticence has caused you to suffer aloneness and misunderstandings. If you sense that someone is being inquisitive about you and your life, you are adept at steering the conversation to other topics, or not answering questions directly. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. You love to read and can develop great powers of concentration.