Your first name of Ralphetta has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. Lacking confidence, you tend to depreciate your own value and ability, yet you could excel in creative writing or design as an outlet for your imaginative, poetic qualities. You cry easily despite your efforts to control this sensitivity. At times, there is a decidedly independent and determined side to your nature in coping with people; however, you dislike to witness hurt feelings and will avoid issues. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. If someone misrepresents you or makes a joke out of something important to you, you withdraw and use silence as a method of making the person aware of the inappropriate comments. You are very idealistic and romantic within yourself and may have tried to express your beautiful thoughts through poetry or writing. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do.