Your first name of Rayeder gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. This name brings the tendency to magnify small issues out of proportion or to become too involved in personality conflicts. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Procrastination, which arises from not being sure of yourself, is one of your major weaknesses because of your preference to avoid issues or unpleasantness in all forms. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood.
