Your first name of Realita has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You tend to scatter your efforts, often not finishing what you start, particularly when the task becomes mundane. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. When you feel misunderstood, you become very reserved and quiet, and do not want to be with people. A very individual, independent person, you live within your own thoughts. If you are not careful, people take advantage of your generous nature. On the other hand, among friends with whom you feel at ease, you are expressive, witty, and quite charming. Your friends seldom know what to expect from you because of this dual character—friendly and charming one moment or lost in introspection the next. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life.