Your first name of Refilwe has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Your accomplishments give you a great deal of satisfaction, and involvement in social activities can sometimes make you feel that you are wasting time. Your verbal expression does not reflect your inner thoughts and feelings, and you often wonder why people react to what you say. You are staunch in friendship, and others can depend upon you for guidance and assistance. If given the training, you could develop music and art. Having everything under control is important to you as it reflects your capable, serious nature. Being self-assured and self-reliant, you are naturally inclined toward operating your own business or accepting opportunities where your love of freedom is not curtailed. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity.