Your first name of Rhaja makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You know what to say to bring the best response. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.