Your first name of Rhiala gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Procrastination, which arises from not being sure of yourself, is one of your major weaknesses because of your preference to avoid issues or unpleasantness in all forms. You require new ideas or concepts to be presented in complete detail before you can understand them properly and accept them. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas.