Your first name of Rhobia gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. As you are a private person, it is a challenge for others to get to know and understand you. You can express yourself better through writing than verbally. As you rarely disclose aspects of your personal life, others must persevere in getting to know you. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. If you sense that someone is being inquisitive about you and your life, you are adept at steering the conversation to other topics, or not answering questions directly. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life.