Your first name of Ruiling has given you a generous nature. You can be easily hurt and become despondent over unkind words or criticism, yet a word of support lifts you once again to happiness and optimism. As you do tend to scatter your efforts, you leave many projects unfinished because you become restless when confronted with monotony and boredom. Being a very affectionate person, you thrive on tenderness, appreciation, and encouragement. It is bothersome for you to apply system, order, and discipline, as you prefer to act spontaneously. As a child you were expressive. The monotony of housework and household chores is often left until you are forced to take action. You love deeply and must guard against possessiveness and jealousy, and resultant losses in the affections. Scattering of efforts interferes with success in your undertakings. The name does not engender emotional stability; nor have you the system and order in your thinking always to finish what you start.