Your first name of Saelem creates a friendly, sociable, charming nature, but causes you to be too easily influenced by others. A stubborn quality within you does not allow you to accept that you may have made a mistake or said the wrong thing. The support of others means a great deal, for you really do not like to stand alone. You can be very obliging, helping others in times of need and neglecting your own duties. Many of your great plans do not reach completion. You learn more through practical applications, experimentation, and observation. You prefer situations that allow a degree of independence, but are reluctant to take on a demanding work-load or responsibility. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with words of endearment and expressions of affection. Also the could be affected through headaches, weak eyes, or sinus difficulties which are aggravated by stressful living conditions and eating the wrong foods. When asked, you are able to give others good advice that you would probably not follow yourself, but must guard against being too opinionated in controversial matters.