Your first name of Selae gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. However, you have a good business head, practical and capable of handling responsibility for others. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. You have an appreciation of beauty in many forms, and enjoy musical and artistic expression along with all the refinements of life. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.