Your first name of Selai has created a practical, responsible, stable nature, and you desire to direct the efforts of others rather than to take order or ask permission. As a result, rather than trying to explain exactly what you mean, you choose often not to say anything at all. You have a determined, self-reliant, capable nature and resent any interference, although in your desire to help you are inclined to become involved in the lives and decisions of other people. This is too forceful and aggressive a name and, if used much, it will cause you to assume responsibility early in life, and to learn much through your own experiences, often the hard way. However, since you are so individual, others could think of you as being self-opinionated. Although you are honest and fair, a directness in speech is a source of much consternation to you, and you often regret what you say. You have a determined, self-reliant, capable nature and resent any interference, although in your desire to help you are inclined to become involved in the lives and decisions of other people. You also have a tendency to worry. You also have a tendency to worry. It causes you to be too serious, and interferes with happiness and relaxation that comes with naturalness of expression.
