Your first name of Selanche gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. Growths could also be a possibility.
