Your first name of Selanei makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. Seldom do you take part in activities that are too strenuous and rigorous as you do not have the same vitality and perseverance that others have, although influences in your family name or other names you may use could modify this tendency. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. However, procrastination is your worst enemy, and you find yourself lacking the ambition to make your dreams a reality. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.