Your first name of Selenta gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. At times you exhibit an uncompromising attitude and indifference toward others through failing to listen to and reason out another person’s point of view. Sometimes friction in association results because your penchant for exactness and detail can cause you to be too fussy over inconsequential matters in the home or at work. You require new ideas or concepts to be presented in complete detail before you can understand them properly and accept them. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood.
