Your first name of Selmarie creates a friendly, sociable, charming nature, but causes you to be too easily influenced by others. You tend to develop new abilities only as the need arises in your life, rather than being naturally curious and interested in scientific or philosophical studies. You are not overly systematic and thorough, and do not enjoy handling monotonous tasks or detailed bookwork. You can be obstinate and self-opinionated, yet you desire to create harmony with others. You desire to have the best in life, but sometimes the determination is not within the qualities of your first name to get those things through consistent hard work and effort. You find difficulty in coming to decisions. You are assertive and independent, yet there are times when you rely upon the support and encouragement of others before making decisions and taking action. Others learn that you cannot be told what to do and you seldom change your mind once it is made up. In a position dealing with the public, you could do well because of your friendly personality, interest in people, and desire to please. When asked, you are able to give others good advice that you would probably not follow yourself, but must guard against being too opinionated in controversial matters.