The name of Selmie creates a dual nature in that you can be very generous and understanding, but you can also be so candid in your expression that you create misunderstanding. Often you do the things you like to excess and, as a result, you wear yourself out. Independence and freedom of action mean a great deal to you; therefore, you enjoy positions where you are giving instructions rather than taking them. Thus, you have too often created the wrong impression, and friendships have suffered. You could develop a dependence on medication, for example, to relieve the tension. Difficulty in accepting advice or admitting that you may have made a mistake causes you to appear to be stubborn and set in your ways. This name does offer creative talent where there is the opportunity for ingenuity and originality. Being somewhat excitable and high-strung, you realize that if provoked, you have a strong temper. This quality can spoil friendships and create losses in the affections. You have very intense feelings and find it difficult to maintain stability and happiness.