Your first name of Shailai creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. It could also cause upsets in the fluid functions: in the kidneys, bladder, or circulatory system of your body. The qualities in this name tend to narrow your opportunities by hindering your ability to concentrate. You make the effort to communicate with others because you place importance on having people like you. You desire change and travel and would enjoy opportunities that allowed you to be creative and to act independently, rather than to conform to system and routine. Because you are expressive, you could be good in sales, but here again, must avoid talking the customer both into and out of the sale. This unsettledness will take its toll on your health causing you to have a sensitive, nervous stomach, indigestion, and a tendency toward ulcers. Your extreme sensitivity and intensity have an adverse effect on your nervous system and, under extreme pressure, could cause a nervous breakdown. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily.