Your first name of Shandalay has given you a desire for self-expression and for positions that allow contact with people, free from the restrictions and monotony into which you are often drawn. Although you can be thorough in whatever you decide to undertake, you prefer to avoid technical, mathematical work. You enjoy sharing, giving, and creating, and you find your reward in seeing happiness in others. You want to plan and budget, and to maintain a well-ordered home, but it is difficult for you to follow through with your plans. If told that you must do something, you tend to resist, but when your sense of co-operation is appealed to, then your desire to please brings out your best. Love and affection are motivating qualities within you, but it is not easy for you to find the words to express your deeper feelings of affection. You thrive on encouragement and appreciation from others, and kindness goes a long way in bringing out your naturally cheerful disposition. However, despite the hurt, you do not tend to brood for long, as you want to be happy and optimistic. There is conflict between your desires and your expression which does not allow scope for your capabilities. This lack of fulfilment of your deeper qualities tends to create repression and frustration.
