Your first name of Shandar makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. Seldom do you take part in activities that are too strenuous and rigorous as you do not have the same vitality and perseverance that others have, although influences in your family name or other names you may use could modify this tendency. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.
