Your first name of Sholyse gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. Procrastination, which arises from not being sure of yourself, is one of your major weaknesses because of your preference to avoid issues or unpleasantness in all forms. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. If you are employed, you would want a job that is secure and dependable, although you would be inclined to be happier in the role of a homemaker than in a role in the business world. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas.
