Your first name of Shondel creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. Although you may appear confident and positive, you actually lack confidence and feel self-conscious at times. The qualities in this name tend to narrow your opportunities by hindering your ability to concentrate. Talking comes easily to you, but you must guard against your inclination to talk too much, especially if you are overstressed. One side desires placidity, relaxation, and social activities, while the other side longs for change and travel, and opportunities that allow you to be creative and independent from all routine and interference. A poor memory could eventually be a problem. Because you are expressive, you could be good in sales, but here again, must avoid talking the customer both into and out of the sale. You could, at times, be too easily influenced against your better judgment, and be led along paths or into activities that put you at risk. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits.